Why You Shouldn’t Be Reasonable When Facing DIPG Childhood Cancer

Written by Lynette Apodaca

Lynette's Blog

September 28, 2023


In the face of childhood cancer, reason often takes a backseat to raw emotion and the primal instinct to protect our loved ones. When a child is diagnosed with cancer, it shatters not only the world of the child but also that of their family. In these moments of despair and uncertainty, being “reasonable” may seem like a logical approach. However, in this blog post, we will explore why being unreasonable – in terms of determination, hope, and advocacy – can be a powerful and necessary stance when dealing with childhood cancer.

Relentless Determination

When a child is diagnosed with cancer, parents are thrust into a battle they never anticipated. The first instinct is to fight with all they have. Being unreasonable in this context means never giving up, even when the odds seem insurmountable. Determination that defies reason can lead to relentless research, tireless advocacy, and unwavering support for the child’s medical team. It means exploring every possible treatment option and never settling for less than the best.

Unwavering Hope

Hope is a lifeline during the darkest of times, and in the face of childhood cancer, it can make the difference between despair and resilience. Being unreasonable about hope means refusing to accept a grim prognosis as the final word. It means believing in miracles, embracing new scientific discoveries, and finding strength in the stories of survivors. Unwavering hope can be a beacon of light in the bleakest of moments, inspiring both the child and their family to keep moving forward.

Advocacy Beyond Bounds

Being unreasonable also means becoming a fierce advocate for your child. It involves challenging the status quo, demanding better treatments, and raising awareness about childhood cancer. It means pushing for more research funding and support for families facing this devastating disease. Unreasonable advocacy can lead to positive change, better outcomes, and improved access to care for all children battling cancer.

Strength in Community

Facing childhood cancer can be an incredibly isolating experience, but being unreasonable about seeking support can make all the difference. Joining a community of other families who have faced or are currently facing childhood cancer can provide invaluable emotional support, guidance, and shared experiences. These communities often become lifelines, offering hope and understanding when it’s needed most.

Redefining “Reasonable”

Ultimately, being unreasonable in the face of childhood cancer means redefining what we consider “reasonable.” It means rejecting the idea that we should accept the unacceptable and, instead, pursuing the extraordinary. It means being bold, audacious, and relentless in the pursuit of a better future for our children.


In the battle against childhood cancer, reason may tell us to be cautious, to prepare for the worst, and to temper our expectations. However, it is precise when faced with such a formidable adversary that we must embrace being unreasonable. Unreasonable determination, hope, advocacy, and the strength of community can provide the strength and resilience needed to navigate this incredibly challenging journey. It is through our collective unreasonable efforts that we can strive for a world where childhood cancer is not the devastating diagnosis it is today.

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